Yep, now I know, this is what I absolutely need from the NG+ selection:
http://darksouls2.wiki.fextralife.co...d#.U3Vdh_mSxgw
Pumping my souls into STR and INT now just to be able to wield it when I get it.
Edit: Oh btw, that Shadow set you mentioned can be farmed until it drops. I saw a video of it the other day, you basically enter the boss room, kill the guys that drop it, and if they didn't drop it, instantly quit the game right there (just to the title screen, of course
). When you reload, the boss room will reset and those enemies will respawn as well.
Edit2: Can't believe this shit. Got invaded by a cheater that threw dozens of gear degrading items at me. Tried fighting back but obviously he was invincible. So now ALL my gear is broken. How mean spirited can some people be? Reported him on Steam but I doubt it will do anything.